If a woman smokes, I don't care how pretty she is; I have no interest in women that smoke.
When I hear women degrading men, it does not attract me to the woman. When I hear women publicly humiliating a man, I am fast repulsed by the woman. I avoid women that I find toxic.
I will put my list in short form.
DEALBREAKERS FOR ME:
Smoking
Tattoos
Abortion
Separated
Married
Don't want children
My Body/My Choice
Birth Control pills
Not carrying for pregnancy
Delaying offspring
Menopause
Unscriptural
Unholy
Course language
Smell of alcohol
Drunk or drunkenness
Likes horror movies and thrillers
Supporting gender confusion
Embracing LGBTQ and woke
Debt
Overspending
Materialism
Carefree with money or careless with money
Strong Democrat
Insulting
Lording self over men
Feminist
Lesbian
Satanist
Devil Worshippers
I am little interested in divorced women.
I believe it is adultery for a man to marry divorced women.
I prefer that a divorced woman go back to her husband rather than to become involved with the divorced woman.
I do not like women involving others against their husband.
It bothers me that some women divorce over any matter and that some women separate a family over any matter. So, it turns me off towards marriage.
A woman whose goal is to love God with all her heart and her neighbor just like she loves herself, (I say “whose goal is to…” because no one alive with their sinful nature can love God with ALL their heart nor can they love their neighbor like they love themselves, see Romans 7). But obviously one’s new nature in Christ desires to do these things.
DEAL BREAKER 2:
Is she sufficiently familiar with the commands of God to know she must obey Jesus per the Lord’s Prayer, ie is she humble enough to confess her sins to the Father daily?
Unfortunately many men and women do not recognize daily confession as an act of obedience that actually glorifies God!!
DEAL BREAKER 3:
Speaking of obedience, does she strongly desire to obey God because she 👉👉loves God👈👈 or dose she “obey” her religious traditions (thinking she’s obeying God). Some people are compelled only by their self-righteous legalism like the Pharisees but not for their love for God.
DEAL BREAKER 4:
Is she teachable? In other words, is she a learner? Will she gracefully receive correction or does she get mad and abusive?
A woman whose goal is to love God with all her heart and her neighbor just like she loves herself, (I say “whose goal is to…” because no one alive with their sinful nature can love God with ALL their heart nor can they love their neighbor like they love themselves, see Romans 7). But obviously one’s new nature in Christ desires to do these things.
DEAL BREAKER 2:
Is she sufficiently familiar with the commands of God to know she must obey Jesus per the Lord’s Prayer, ie is she humble enough to confess her sins to the Father daily?
Unfortunately many men and women do not recognize daily confession as an act of obedience that actually glorifies God!!
DEAL BREAKER 3:
Speaking of obedience, does she strongly desire to obey God because she 👉👉loves God👈👈 or dose she “obey” her religious traditions (thinking she’s obeying God). Some people are compelled only by their self-righteous legalism like the Pharisees but not for their love for God.
DEAL BREAKER 4:
Is she teachable? In other words, is she a learner? Will she gracefully receive correction or does she get mad and abusive?
What an interesting read I find it amusing that two of you put menopause as a deal breaker. Considering you’re both in the early 60s range if you do me a women she’s likely to be post menopausal…:-)
